When A Death Occurs

When a death occurs, the order in which things need to be done often depends on where the death occurred. But, one thing should always be remembered: your heightened emotional state upon the death of a loved one. That's why we suggest that you ask a friend for help - someone who is more able to think clearly, and give you the support you need. If in any case you are not sure of who to notify or what to do, you may call (414) 321-7440, and as always we are availible by phone 24 hours a day to assist you in any way we can.

At a Hospital, Nursing Home or Care Facility

When a death occurs at a hospital, the hospital will ask the family what funeral home will be handling the arragnements.  It is critial to know that this is not for them to notify us, but so that they know whom to release the deceased to.  It is important thay you contact us directly to notify us of the death.

When a death occurs in a care facility, such as a nursing home, the professional staff will notify you and the necessary authorities. If the name of the funeral home has been left with them, the institution typically will notify the funeral home at the time of the death. The funeral director will contact you following their notification to help you proceed. (However, we suggest you contact the funeral home immediately, so you have the reassurance you need that all is being taken care of properly.).

If in any case you are not sure of who to notify or what to do, you may call (414) 321-7440, and we'll assist you in notifying the proper agencies.

While Under At Home Hospice Care

If a loved one was in the care of a hospice program, a hospice representative will give family members instructions and procedures to follow. The coroner/medical examiner will be notified by hospice. Following their release the hospice will contact the funeral home. It is always a good idea for the family to contact us immediately so that we will be aware of the pending call from hospice.

An Unexpected or Out of Town Death 

When a death occurs unexpectedly, a family member or friend should contact emergency personnel first. The coroner or medical examiner's office may have to be notified. It is important to know that we may have to wait for permission from the medical examiner's office before the transfer of the remains can occur. A family member or friend should also contact us so that we are aware of the death.

If a death occurs out of town, please call us before you notify any other authority.  We are experienced in taking care of the intricate details that are involved when a death occurs out of town.

Widening the Circle

Our staff members are experienced professionals who can provide much of the information you need, emotional support and compassionate guidance.

While you may ask the director any questions at this time, you will be able to discuss the arrangements in detail later when you meet in person. During this initial call, the funeral director will gather information to be able to transport your loved one to the funeral home.

The funeral director may ask you several questions, including whether your loved one made any pre-arrangements. The director will also schedule a date and time for you to meet at the funeral home and will let you know what you should bring with you. Others you may need to call are:

- Family members and friends

- Clergy or other spiritual advisors

Those Important Questions

If there is no pre-plan in place, there are several other questions that you may have to have answered in regards to the death of your loved one:

- Do I have to have embalming?

- What type of service should we have?

- What information will the funeral home need?

- Does the family have to engage the services of a minister?

- Do I have to contact the cemetery directly or does the funeral director handle that?

By contacting our staff, we'll be able to help answer your questions and assist in making the appropriate plans. You can reach us at (414) 321-7440.

However, as we’ve said before, one of the best ways to make sure that all of your questions and desires are taken care of is to make pre-arrangements. This is as simple as outlining your wishes to having all of the details written down and the financial arrangements prepaid. Please contact one of our staff at (414) 321-7440 to learn more about pre-arrangement.

What to Expect When You Arrive at the Funeral Home

One of the first things the funeral arranger will do is to provide you with our general price list. He or she will then guide you through the entire arrangement process, explaining how you can create a memorable personal celebration of your loved one's life. This is not a one-way conversation; we want to hear your ideas and desires, and use them as the foundation for the arrangement process.

This process may include:

- Preparing and filing the official death certificate

- Scheduling the location, date and time of services or events

- Selecting a casket, urn or other items

- Preparing an obituary notice

- Scheduling vehicles

- Selecting pallbearers

You may also sign necessary authorizations or make arrangements to have them signed by the appropriate family members.

We’d like you to bring any photos, a favorite song, or memorabilia so that you and your funeral arranger can better discuss how you would like your loved one to be remembered. Having these things, and knowing their favorite song or favorite gathering place – even their favorite activity – will help us create a truly fitting memorial service.

Our funeral arrangers will assist you in planning a loving tribute that captures the spirit of the person whose life you wish to honor. To learn more about personalizing the service, please read the Honoring Life section of this Web site. The funeral arranger will discuss personalization with you during your arrangement conference.

The following checklist will help you remember what information about the decedent and items will be needed when meeting with a funeral arranger.

- Full legal name- Home address

- Social Security number

- Date of birth

- Place of birth

- Father's name

- Mother's maiden name

- Veteran's discharge papers (DD-214)

- Recent Photograph

- Highest education

- Occupation

- Place of burial (if applicable)

- Clothing

- Clergy name and phone number

- Survivors (name and relationship)

- Insurance policies (if applicable)

A staff member of Heritage Funeral Homes will be honored to explain all of the options available to you.